3yrs and Counting?

Hi Jodi:
My name is _, and I've been n a monogamous relationship (on my part) for close to 3 years now. I'm starting to feel as though I want out, due to the way things have been happening. Such as me having to right down bad situations when they happen and I'm noticing that they ar happening more frequently. I feel as though I'm suppose to be the girlfriend tht just says yes to everything and tht I'm supose to sit at home and knit while he's out having fun and fucking? When I see him now I start to question myself as to y am I still here? Please Jodi.. What shall I do?

3yrs and Counting...
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Hey 3yrs and Counting
Sooooooo first i want you to re-read what you wrote and see if you can point out any problems yourself... No? You cant? Well lets disect the severe issues here one by one. You start of by saying 'monogamous (on my part)'... Do you really feel like you are the only one committed to this relationship? Because if so we should stop right here. The bottom line is if you know he is cheating on you and you are staying with him then you are doing the right thing. Because if you dont think you are worth a better man, than you're probably not... Save the good ones for me honey! O, and dont think just because you havent 'caught him red handed' that you dont 'know'... When you call him and he's out with his friends and he cant pick up, you 'know' he's cheating... When he has girl-friends that he met after you guys got together that you barely know, you 'know' he's cheating... Honey you're a woman so when you cant sleep at night or you cant focus at work because you're worried about him, you 'know' he's cheating... O and as for you writing down ALL the bad situations thats reason enough to cut him loose... You aint heard??? You can do bad all by yourself!!! If imma be writing down bad situations its gonna be staring and co-staring ME, thats it! Now it aint nothin wrong with sitting at home and knitting, but if that aint what you wanna do then dont! You settle for waiting your whole life on a man you just might end never living. Honey if when you look at him you think to yourself 'y am i still here' then dont be... You said you're 'starting' to feel as though you want out, but by the time you actually verbalize that you've been feeling that way, you've actually been feeling that way for a while... Usually i would say for you to way the good and the bad of the relationship and see if its something worth fighting for, BUT you've already got your naughty list and no nice list. Take a break... see how you both feel without each other for a while, this may work out for the best. You may find out you like it like that...
My honest opinion is that this 'relationship' has run its course. Consider changing your name from '3yrs and Counting' to 'Suddenly Single'

Let me know what happens,
Jodi~