Bit by a Cougar

Hey Jodi,


Im just kinda curious about your opinionon this one. This situation isnt too common so okay here goes...
I fell in love with my best friends mother. We have been dating for 3 years now and no one knows about it. We have gone away on weekend vacations and everything.  She get’s me whatever I want and breaks me off what I need too. I want to move in with her and officially make her mine because i honestly love her and i believe she loves me too.  What do I do? How do I tell my bff w/o hurting her. O by the way I am a woman as well.




Sincerely,
Bit by a Cougar

Let me start off by saying WOW... Indeed this is no typical situation. The first question that comes to mind is, if the love is so strong, why have you guys been hiding it for three years? Is it purely because you guys dont want your best friend to find out? There is honestly no way out of this without someone getting stung. Does the best friend know that her mother and/or you are even attracted to women? Let alone dating each other for three years? This is hard because on one hand, your and adult and need to do whats best for you, yet this is surely gonna shock your bff's system.

If it were I, id just sit everyone down and tell all truths. Thats all you can do at this point. Tell everyone how you feel and see where that leads you. When in doubt always be honest to yourself and how you feel. That usually gets you the best outcome...

Let me know what happens,
Jodi~


P.S. Dont confuse when i say 'best' outcome with 'desired' outcome. The truth usually exposes everything for what they really are. Dont be surprised if your arent able to keep both relationships as they are now.