Hey Jodi,
Ok so im married with 3 kids and i am happy. I love my family and wouldnt trade them for anything in the world. But i am a young father, and our 10yr anniversary is coming up. Ive never cheated on her (during our marriage) and i dont plan on it. Now i say all this not say this: My ex has fell on hard times and needs a place to live. Although we have remained friends throughout the years, the sexual attration betweens us is undeniable. Whenever i havent found an excuse not to see the ex and we do hang out, i always have to cut it short so we dont end up admiring the ceiling fan, nah mean Jodi? Now on the one hand she is me friend that i dont care about and i wouldnt want anyone living on the street that didnt have to. On the other hand she'd be too close, and i know she still has feelings for me and my penis still has feelings for her vajayjay (as you ladies call it now) and i dont know how thats gonna work... Also my wife doesnt know that we ever hooked up. So what should i do Jodi? Would you let your ex move in with you and your husband? Help me out here!
-dont wanna sex the ex
HA! Ur funny 'dont wanna sex the ex',
Whenever a man goes on like you just did in the begining that means not only have you thought about sexing the ex, your penis is pretty pissed at you that you are having second thoughts! LOL! Ok so you and your ex are homies and she needs a place to live, so ironically this woman that still has feelings for you looked towards YOU. Does she have any family she could stay with? Friends? Co-workers? Strangers? I mean hell... Why would she not exhaust every option before you anyways? If i was her i wouldnt wanna see you all hugged up with the wifey and the kiddies with the big white picket fence, naw ill pass. I would first see (and make sure) she has no other options... Then if she has no other options I would see if any of your friends could house her... Its really not a good look to have the ex in the house with the fam, but if push comes to shove you have to do what you have to do. Now here is the elephant in the room, ur wife dont care if she stays with you??? Even if she dont know yall use to freak she has a nootch! Like dang dude, you got it like that? Maybe you need to givin me advice, ya dig? Lol. Putting that aside, i would say avoid it at ALL cost. Its something smelling fishy to me about this situation and you got too much to loose to get caught up. Smell me?
And as for if i would let my ex move in with me and the hubby, i doubt the man i marry would even let that go down, at least without a fight... literally...
Let me know what happens,
Jodi~
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I completely agree with you Jodi! It definitely would NOT be a good idea to let your ex move in with you and your wife.
ReplyDelete...dont forget the kiddies... I can just hear them now 'Mommy why does daddy always look at auntie like that and she just giggles and walks away?' Smh DONT DO IT TO YASELF!!!
ReplyDeletedont let that broad stay with you unless you plan on making an appearance on divorce court. buddy or not, yall have a history that will only lead to drama. give her a few dollars and keep it moving. your penis might not agree with the decision but your sanity will.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Cookie... Ur penis will eventually get over it, you even said urself that uve avoided activities with her where she wouldnt end up at ur house so how do u think ur gonna hold out with her in house???
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